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Q1. I just bought over a restaurant. Ever since, I am hardly at home. Do you think that it is possible for me to ask my maid to help out with washing of dishes in my restaurant, instead of her being at home only?

Mrs. Ye

Ans: Remember that you are bonded by IMMIGRATION ACT (CHAPTER 133) IMMIGRATION ACT REGULATIONS SECURITY BOND (REGULATION 21)"That she shall not engage in any form of employment, paid or unpaid, or in any business, profession or occupation other than that of a domestic worker in my employ;". Therefore, we suggest that you do not bring your foreign domestic worker (FDW) to your restaurant to help out. There have been caught bringing their FDWs to help out in their shops. They were subsequently, imposed with heavy fines and banned from employing and FDWs.
Q2. I've just bought a dog for my daughter but my maid is afraid of dogs. She doesn't even dare to go near the dog at all. The dog is only a puppy. However, I'm quite happy with my maid's work performance. What should I do?

Janice Teo

Ans: Most of the FDWs are able to take care of pets. However, there are the minorities whom are afraid to take care of dogs for various reasons ranging from phobia and even religious reasons. Most of the Indonesian FDWs are Muslim and therefore they are ones whom are usually afraid to take care of dogs. Show your FDW that puppies are harmless and actually very cute. You may want to show and teach her how to take care of the puppy and then eventually leave her on her own. You may want to speak the assistance from the agency.
Q3. Recently, I just had a Filipino maid. She doesn't speak much to the family. Most of the time, no one is at home during the day except her. Sometimes, when I tired calling home during that time, the line is engaged. Recently, I realized that she does not do the housekeeping according to my instructions and threw her temper on me last night. I am really upset and wish to send her back. However, she has just arrived less than two weeks. Please help.

Mrs. Jessie Goh

Ans: It is common for an employer to have some difficulty in communicating with a FDW initially. This is because most FDWs are shy and cannot express themselves well. Your FDW may not be familiar with you and the members of the family yet. After some time, she will be less shy and more communicative towards you and your family.

Your FDW should not have shown her temper at you. This is absolutely uncalled for. Have a good talk with your FDW and tell her that she is not supposed to use the telephone line while nobody is at home. Explain to her why she cannot use the telephone during these hours. For instance, you may want to call her and let her know of something important which you may want to do but you are not able to get through as the line is engaged. Also, if you allow her to make local telephone calls, you may explain to her that she should make these calls during the evening when you and your family members are around.

Most FDWs will make some mistakes when they first start working for an employer. Again, given some time, she will learn to do some time, she will learn to do things according to your instructions You may want to remind her that she should follow your instructions on how to do the household chores. You may want to draft a timetable for her, indicating the different household chores that require her to do for the day.

If you still find that you cannot tolerate your FDW, you may want to seek a replacement from the Agency that you had taken her from. The provision and conditions for replacement are stated in the contract that you had signed in the contract that you had signed with the Agency. If you want repatriate her back to her country of origin, you may have to absolve the cost of the Maid's Loan an the cost of repatriating her. It is best that you seek the advice from the Agency if you wish to proceed and repatriate her back to her country of origin.


Q4. My Indonesian maid has been a great maid. She did a great job in housekeeping and taking care of my baby. She has been with me for 2 years. I would like to keep her with me for the next few years. What should I do?

Madam Lim

Ans: Base on the description of your FDW that you had given, that she is such a good worker, we strongly encourage you to keep her and renew her contract. First and foremost, your FDW and you should discuss about renewing her contract with you. You should discuss matters regarding her new salary payment and number of off-days that she may want now. This is to reduce any disagreements later. Some FDWs may want to have a change of environment after working for two years with their employers. However, if you really want to keep her then we would suggest that you approach your agency and ask them for assistance. You may want to explain to her the pros and cons of changing to another employer. When both of you have finally come to a conclusive decision and an agreement, you may want to approach a licensed employment agency to assist you in renewing your FDW's work permit. If her passport has expired, you would have to renew her passport too before you can renew her work permit.
Q5. My mum is getting old and I would like to get a maid to do all the housework for her. But would that make my mum feel uncomfortable or unhappy? My mum is used to being alone and she usually does all the housework very neatly.

Miss Joyce Goh

Ans: It is best that you ask your mother about the matter and inform her of the changes that she may need to adapt to by having a maid around the house. You may want to ask and convince your mother to look at brighter side of things about having a maid. Your mother may welcome the presence of a maid instead of being all alone in the house by herself. Your mother may still maintain the same standards of cleanliness and neatness by giving instructions to the maid of how she wants things to be done. Convince your mother that this arrangement would allow both of you to spend more time together.
Q6. I have a maid who is leaving us at the end of the month. She has practically seen my daughter grown up. However, she is unfortunately, a slow worker in general. Is it advisable that I keep her or look for a new maid in regards to the fact that my daughter may need to adjust to a new person? Can the change of maid affect my daughter's mood? If I wish to keep her without going through her maid agency, how can I go about doing so? Thank you.

Selina Tan

Ans: Professional Employment agency would encourage you to keep your existing maid. It will be easier for an adult to adapt to a new maid in the house than a child. Your daughter may find it difficult to adjust to a new face and a new person handling her. This may affect your daughter's daily routine and education sometimes.

It is common for Singaporean employers to find their FDWs to be slow worker. This is because we live in a fast-paced society and we expect our maids, who come from a slower-paced society, to work like us. You may want to teach her on how to do things fast. You may also want to find out whether she is taking up so much of her time doing a chore that she is left with little time to complete others. For instance, she may be spending a few hours doing the laundry when she could be doing it in an hour.

When you receive the letter from the Ministry of Manpower to renew your FDW's work permit, the first thing you should do is so send her for a medical screening, if required. In the meantime get an insurance company to process the S$5,000.00 Security Bond and Personal Accident policy for you. You have to check  if your FDW's passport has expired. If it has expired. If it has expired, you would then have to get it renewed first. Once all that is done, send all the document to the work permits department of the Ministry of Manpower located at 18 Havelock Road Singapore 059764. You may want to consider approaching a licensed employment agency to process the renewal for you to go through on your own, for example you may have to wait in long queues to renew her work permit.


Q7. My husband is an odd job worker and I am a housewife. We intend to employ a FDW to take care of our baby who was born recently. However, we both do not have any CPF and Income tax Assessments. How can we go about applying for a FDW? Are we eligible to apply for a FDW?

Melissa Lim

Ans: We are not in the position to say whether you are eligible to employ a FDW. The Ministry of Manpower is the approving authority. We would only be able to assist you in sourcing and recruiting the maid and submitting your application to the Ministry of Manpower for approvals. There are employers who are in similar predicaments and have been given the approval to employ a FDW. However, this is on a case by case basis only.

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