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Specially for those in relationship or in near future !!!

A relationship is a natural, logical, and harmonious association. This happens when people WANT to be with each other and look forward to sharing goals, time, and activities together. Here are fun and easy ways to a loving --- Ideal relationship.

Always in pleasant tones. No shouting or swearing at each other. Speak only positive words with gentleness and kindness. Communicate daily. This is the highest and most caring form of love.

Take 30 minutes a day. To exercise, communicate, release emotions, share ideas, goals, and to clear up any misunderstandings. It's okay to hold hands, too!

Enjoy a new restaurant, a different dish, a concert, a unique vacation, attend a class together something exciting both of you can plan and look forward to. Learn together and you'll be happier.

Like a magazine subscription, a special book, a warm bath and massage, flowers, surprise experiences, favorite foods, and the many other special things your mate would enjoy and get excited about.

Hide them around the home --- in clothing, pockets, in the kitchen drawer and secret places. Send some to his or her working place.

Write a passionate love letter. Express your love in writing on exquisite stationery. Attach a gift certificate or a crispy $100 bill. Use your imagination and make it a fun surprise. And do it often!

This is an absolute NO-NO. Only praises. Acknowledge the goodness in each other. There is no place for negativity in a loving and lasting relationship ever! Your mate will do the right thing -- as you lead by example.

It is a gift to yourself and your mate. A healthy and attractive body also promotes a healthy relationship.

He or she has the right to determine his or her own reality and destiny. Always respect that choice.

Both of you can live your lives in your own way harmoniously.

Do your very best to make life easier and more fun for your mate.

At the same speed and direction -- by sharing similar ideas and activities. This will bond you together even more while building on fond memories. (People who don't grow together will compete in their relationship and move on to lead separate lives. This is why most people divorce.

Don't act as though you "own" your mate. Support, encourage each other's way of living and individual interests. Be grateful in harmony.

It could be your last. Look at it this way and you'll always appreciate each other even more. Have NO reason for regrets. Spend time with each other doing all the things you both love to do. Do it now! Tomorrow may not come. So together-plan now for the best of the rest of your lives.

In private, there are no limits on what you can do together with each other... as long as both benefit and agree. Whatever other people think of what you do or say is none of their business! So, go ahead experiment -- and satisfy each other to the limit!

To new ideas, experiences, and relationships. This is the way for fun, growth and expansion in your lives. The more you LEARN together... the happier you both will be.

Release the past at every moment. Live in the present. Plan for the future -- together... and joyously!

15. BE FREE of resentments, anger, jealousy, hatred, and envy toward each other. This will open both of you to even greater respect for each other. Be thankful for your mate's kindness.

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	How to Have an Ideal Relationship By Lorrin L. Lee, PhD Specially for those in relationship or in near future !!! A relationship is a natural, logical, and harmonious association. This happens when people WANT to be with each other and look forward to sharing goals, time, and activities together. Here are fun and easy ways to a loving --- Ideal relationship. 1. TALK. Always in pleasant tones. No shouting or swearing at each other. Speak only positive words with gentleness and kindness. Communicate daily. This is the highest and most caring form of love. 2. WALK TOGETHER MORE. Take 30 minutes a day. To exercise, communicate, release emotions, share ideas, goals, and to clear up any misunderstandings. It's okay to hold hands, too! 3. DO NEW, DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES TOGETHER. Enjoy a new restaurant, a different dish, a concert, a unique vacation, attend a class together something exciting both of you can plan and look forward to. Learn together and you'll be happier. 4. GIVE GIFTS. Like a magazine subscription, a special book, a warm bath and massage, flowers, surprise experiences, favorite foods, and the many other special things your mate would enjoy and get excited about. 5. WRITE LOVE NOTES. Hide them around the home --- in clothing, pockets, in the kitchen drawer and secret places. Send some to his or her working place. Write a passionate love letter. Express your love in writing on exquisite stationery. Attach a gift certificate or a crispy $100 bill. Use your imagination and make it a fun surprise. And do it often! 6. DO NOT CRITICIZE, CONDEMN OR COMPLAIN! This is an absolute NO-NO. Only praises. Acknowledge the goodness in each other. There is no place for negativity in a loving and lasting relationship ever! Your mate will do the right thing -- as you lead by example. 7. ACHIEVE AND MAINTAIN YOUR IDEAL FIGURE. It is a gift to yourself and your mate. A healthy and attractive body also promotes a healthy relationship. 8. LET HIM/HER BE RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS/HER LIFE. He or she has the right to determine his or her own reality and destiny. Always respect that choice. Both of you can live your lives in your own way harmoniously. Treasure each other's differences. Do your very best to make life easier and more fun for your mate. 9. GROW TOGETHER. At the same speed and direction -- by sharing similar ideas and activities. This will bond you together even more while building on fond memories. (People who don't grow together will compete in their relationship and move on to lead separate lives. This is why most people divorce. 10. DO NOT BE POSSESSIVE. Don't act as though you "own" your mate. Support, encourage each other's way of living and individual interests. Be grateful in harmony. 11. TREASURE YOUR TIME TOGETHER. It could be your last. Look at it this way and you'll always appreciate each other even more. Have NO reason for regrets. Spend time with each other doing all the things you both love to do. Do it now! Tomorrow may not come. So together-plan now for the best of the rest of your lives. 12. DO WHAT PLEASES BOTH OF YOU. In private, there are no limits on what you can do together with each other... as long as both benefit and agree. Whatever other people think of what you do or say is none of their business! So, go ahead experiment -- and satisfy each other to the limit! 13. BE OPEN. To new ideas, experiences, and relationships. This is the way for fun, growth and expansion in your lives. The more you LEARN together... the happier you both will be. 14. FORGIVE and LOVE. Release the past at every moment. Live in the present. Plan for the future -- together... and joyously! 15. BE FREE of resentments, anger, jealousy, hatred, and envy toward each other. This will open both of you to even greater respect for each other. Be thankful for your mate's kindness.

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