"sharing our ups
and downs together, someone to cry and laugh with"
"caring and understanding
each other's need for space and growth"
"loving and respecting
each other"
"doing things for my wife
(vice versa) which I usually wouldn't do"
"making her laugh
the way she had never done before"
"spending the rest
of my life whom I truly love and trust"
"combining effort
to meet our goals in life"
"to inject fun and
spontaneity to keep the marriage interesting and alive"
"to show patience
at all times especially during arguments"
"lots of love and
support"
"being able to enjoy
and love each other's company while not neglecting the love from friends
and relatives"
"to cook and do
household chores together"
"to look after our
kids together"
"to become house-husband/wife
whenever necessary"
"not having to drive
between two houses"
"not having to buy
extra T-shirts, shorts, socks, slippers, toothbrush etc."
"someone to nag
at you for things you shouldn't do"
and so on and so
for...to be continued?
I would feel that
commitment to each other is the key to a successful marriage. Ok, before
you start screaming and shouting words of disagreement...Gee, it's just
what I felt... Com'on folks, give me a break won't you?
We strongly believe in "keeping
the faith" to keep the relationship going. It is with this that in times of
crisis and arguments will you find strength to get through them. Well, I don't
deny that there may be other factors involved but briefly, this is what webelieve
and we shall stick to it. Having a commitment doesn't mean a lost of freedom
too and we strongly believe a person has to keep growing mentally (term for
growing physically?aging I suppose...) Don't you feel that we should take our
trip to Planet Earth seriously and make the best out of our life? Gosh, sounding
philosophical aye? Okay, okay... I would stop...FOR NOW! hah!
What's our wish? Our wish
would be... Like in every prince and princess fairy tales...
"And
we live happily ever after...."
P.S. Keep a look out for
the exclusive coverage of "Yin's marriage!"...sorry, she ain't any hot celebrity...but
she is definitely my Cindy Crawford and Margaret Thatcher rolled into one!